Things we are sharing on the No Bully Club Blog….

We are uploading a few videos for you to share.
We will also be adding interviews with parents, teachers and victims of bullying.
If you would like to interview you and share it on the blog contact me at richard@richardpaul.com

What About the Bully?

At one of the last conferences I spoke at I had several request for NO BULLY CLUBHOW TO HELP THE BULLY.

We want to talk to anyone who may have been a bully so we can share their perspective.
There is so much said of what we can do for the victim but how can we help the bully?
A person crying out through anger and fear.

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What Can You Do To Stop The Bullying?

What you can do to stop the bullying is to get involved.
If you see a fellow student being bullied (pushed , teased, threatened) you need to help them.
How?
By telling someone about what is going on! (Parents, Teacher, Principal etc)
Some schools have a box that you can put the information in and knowbody will know that you are the one who informed the school.

The worse thing you can do is be silent and not tell anyone. If you do this you are not helping the student, the school or yourself because evetually you could end up being the next victim.

Do something!

Copyright Richard Paul 2009

Please Help Me I’m Being Bullied!

I was at a school presenting my no bullying program and after the presentation a young girl came up to tell me that she was being bullied. It was obvious that she was desperately looking for help because she said she told her teacher and her mother but it didn’t seem that anything was being done to end the bullying. I told her to tell the principal and her teacher again and insist that she needs their help.  After she walked away the principal came up to me to tell me how happy she was with my no bully program. I pointed out the little girl to her and said, “that girl is being bullied and she really needs your help!” I was so impressed because the principal quickly called in the school counselor and they were discussing a plan of action.

When someone is asking for help don’t assume it is nothing but kids being kids instead act quickly and you will put an end to the bullying.

Copyright Richard Paul 2009

This is a great No Bullying Article

Read this No Bullying Article and learn

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Shenandoah County Schools Create Successful Programs To Eliminate Bullying

Do Unto Others…
Shenandoah County Schools Create Successful Programs To Eliminate Bullying

By Aimee Cregger

SHENANDOAH COUNTY – No matter what age, kids pick on kids and have been for centuries. The Valley is no exception for this naturally occuring phenomenon.

To cope, Shenandoah County Public Schools has implemented a county-wide bullying program and each school has created specific events to fight against kid-on-kid violence.

At Peter Muhlenberg Middle School, a bullying prevention task force was created to plan events and programs. The task force is composed of students chosen by teachers to help prevent bullying among their peers.

“The kids in the task force act as mediators and really look for any problems between fellow classmates,” said Kristene Wellings, PMMS guidance counselor.

The students on the task force have multiple roles including educating classmates about bullying, acting as liaisons between bullied children and teachers and acting as leaders at special events.

As one of the first events, PMMS students celebrated National Stand Up Day on November 21. In January, students took part in the No Name Calling Week to promote friendly relationships.

Also, aiding the program is the Bully Help Web site (www.bullyhelp.org). It is a free site available to school counselors where students can anonmously report bullying.

“Any student can go on the site, report an incident, and it comes straight to my office anonmously,” Wellings said. “We’ve had a good number of students use the site and it is working to prevent incidents.”

On the north end of the county, Signal Knob Middle school students are taking part in a program titled Rachel’s Challenge. Rachel Scott was a victim of the 1999 Columbine High School shooting.

Rachel’s Challenge teaches random acts of kindness and was started by her parents, Darrell and Sandy Scott.

At Signal Knob, students are encouraged to treat one another nicely and hold a hand out to new classmates.

“General politeness in the building has increased and bullying has almost been completely eliminated,” said Missy Hensley, principal. “Last week I saw a student invite a new classmate over to the lunch table because they were sitting alone. That makes me proud.”

North Fork Middle in Quicksburg is offering individual and group counseling for bullies and victims and also participated in No Name Calling Week in January.

“I think the teasing and name calling in our school has decreased and hopefully we can continue to remind our students the affects of bullying and it will get better over time,” said Alison Zeiner, guidance counselor.

While middle school seems to be the age of transition where most bullying occurs, the elementary and high schools are also promoting good habits.

Contact Aimee Cregger at 459-4078, or e-mail her at aimee.svh@gmail.com.

Read this article on Bullying in Schools

Here is a good reason why parents, schools and community need to be educated on what to do and look for to put an end to bullying at school.

Click here!

Here is a Bully Article From Click On Detroit.com

HAZEL PARK, Mich. — A metro Detroit father said his daughter was beaten up in her school’s cafeteria, and the whole incident was posted on a popular social-networking site.

Character Sprint Grant

Great news Sprint is offering a Character Grant for Schools and my program qualifies for it. Click here for link.

Acceptance and Kindness

I received a troubling email from a high school student who was very upset with the Jocks (as she put it) and how they have been bullying a special education student. She described some very gross and disgusting things they have done to this poor student. She asked my advice and I told her to tell authorities immediately.

In elementary school students are taught diversity and ability awareness. They learn understanding and kindness but for some reason this education goes out the window in middle school and high school.
Not only do we need to teach No Bullying but we also need to teach differences and remind them that making fun of someone’s shortcomings is not funny it is BULLYING!

Cyber Bullying

Cyber bullying is a new tool bullies have been using to hurt their victims. I was presenting at a school in Houghton Lake, Michigan and when I arrived my client informed me of a cyber bullying issue that took place the evening before and how the victim was devastated.

There are many products on the market that parents can use to police what is being sent. unfortunately I have yet to hear of a product that puts a sent item in a holding pattern till a parent can review it. I have been told by many technicians that there are no full proof ways to catch the bully before he strikes on the Internet. They say the best defense is the parents watching and overseeing the computer activities.

Here is some information on parent control software:

http://www.consumersearch.com/www/software/parental-control-software/index.html

http://www.microsoft.com/windows/products/windowsvista/features/details/parentalcontrols.mspx

http://www.softforyou.com/